Ngaba wakha walunywa yinja yakho?
Namhlanje asithethi ngokulunywa xa inja ilimaza umniniyo ngempazamo, kodwa iyaluma xa ibamba ngobunono isandla sakho okanye isihlahla emlonyeni, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, inokukrwela ulusu oluncinci. Enyanisweni, olu hlobo lokuluma luxhaphake kakhulu, uninzi lwamantshontsho.
Uluma ntoni?
Yimincili nje, yiyo loo nto ixhaphake kakhulu kumantshontsho. Kuninzi okufuneka sikufunde iinjana, kuquka nendlela yokuhlalisana nabaninizo. Ngoko ngokombono wenjana engazange ifunde olu lwazi, kwimeko eyonwabileyo kakhulu, ngokuqinisekileyo iya kusebenzisa indlela efanayo yokonwabisa umniniyo, kwaye ilume ngobumnene isandla somnini kunye nesandla yintetho.
Kutheni sisandla kuphela?
Ndiyakholwa ukuba lo ngumbuzo wabanikazi abaninzi, ngokwenene, ukusuka kwelinye imbono, kukho impendulo, yiyiphi intlangano yabantu kunye nokuphindaphinda koqhagamshelwano nehlabathi langaphandle? Izandla, kunjalo.
Kuthekani ngezinja? Ukongeza kwivumba lezinja, olona qhagamshelwano nelizwe langaphandle ngumlomo kuphela,abantu baya kuxhawulana ukubonisa ubuhlobo, kwaye izinja ziyalumana ukubonisa ubuhlobo.
Inxalenye yenja yakho ongenayoukudibana nezona zizandla zakho! Ehlabathini inja, isandla sakho umlomo wayo, ngoko xa uza kudlala ngayo, okanyexa ichulumancile, ngokwemvelo iya kukuluma "umlomo" wakho ukubonisa umoya wayo.
Ngaba inja ifanele ikhule?
Naluphi na uhlobo lokuziphatha kakubi ngayo nayiphi na inja,ukuba umniniyo akanalunya ngokwaneleyo ukuyilungisa, ngoko ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva kuya kubangela iingxaki ezinkulu.
Ukusuka kwimbono yomnini wenja, le ndlela yokuziphatha iyaqondakala, emva koko, indlela yabo yenja yokubonakalisa iimvakalelo;Kodwa kwimbono yomnikazi ongeyena inja, le ndlela yokuziphatha iyingozi kakhulu.
Ukuthetha ngokuthe ngqo, le ndlela yokuziphatha kufuneka ilungiswe, ungacingi ukuba inja iya kwenzaqonda ukuba le ndlela yokuziphatha ukuba ayilungiswanga ngexesha, iya kwanda kuphela ngobudala kunye nokuzithemba.
Indlela yokuyilungisa?
Yiyeke injayazi ukuba mandenze ntoni na kwaye ningayenzi. Thatha ingxaki yokuluma isandla, umzekelo. U-MINI wayenawo lo mkhwa sisengumntwana, kodwa asizange sibe nangxaki kangako ukuwuyeka.
Kuba iMINI iyazi ukuba ngubani umphathi ngeentsuku zeveki, xa indiluma esihlahleni,Ndifuna nje ukutshintsha ithoni yam kwaye ndihlale ndiyijongile, kwaye iya kuwukhulula ngokwemvelo umlomo wayo kwaye isuke kum.
Kutheni kunje?Oku kuhambelana ngokuthe ngqo nokuseka isimo esihle sokusingatha kubomi bemihla ngemihla.
Udibana njani nenja yakho yonke imihla?
Ixesha lokuposa: Jul-18-2023